Monday, January 23, 2012

❤On the Imaamate of Women in Prayer❤ Ilm to benefit

Bismillaah

"All praise and thanks belongs to Allaah. Lord & Creator of all the worlds. May Allaah bestow His mercy upon the Prophet, his family, his companions, and on all of those who follow them in truth until The Last Day" Ameen  
 
 
Awn al-Ma`bood [2/300-301], the commentary to Abu Daawood by Abu at-Tayyib al-Adheemabaadee, may Allaah have mercy upon him
 
577) Umm Waraqah, the daughter of Nawfal reported, "When the Prophet (sallallaahu `alaihi wasallam) proceeded for Badr I said to him, 'Messenger of Allaah allow me to accompany you in the battle. I shall act as a nurse for your patients and maybe Allaah will bestow martyrdom upon me.' He replied, 'stay at your home and Allaah the Exalted will bestow martyrdom upon you.' [The narrator said: hence she was called a martyr.] She read the Qur'aan and sought permission from the Prophet (sallallaahu `alaihi wasallam) to have a mu'adhdhin in her house. He therefore permitted her to do so. She announced that her slave and slave girl would be free after her death so one night they strangled her with a sheet of cloth until she died and ran away. The next day Umar announced that anyone who has knowledge of them or has seen them should bring them to him. (After they were caught) Umar ordered that they be crucified and this was the first crucifixion at Madeenah."
578) From Umm Waraqah, the daughter of Abdullaah bin al-Haarith, "the Messenger of Allaah (sallallaahu `alaihi wasallam) used to visit her at her house. He appointed a mu'adhdhin to call adhaan for her and he commanded her to lead the inmates of her house in prayer." Abdurrahmaan said, "I saw that her mu'adhdhin was an old man."
[Abu Daawood (Eng. Trans. #591&592)]
This hadeeth establishes that the imaamate of women and their praying in congregation is correct and affirmed by means of the order of the Messenger of Allaah (sallallaahu `alaihi wasallam) . Aa`ishah (RA) and Umm Salamah (RA) led the women in prayer for the obligatory prayers and the prayer of Taraaweeh.
Al-Haafidh said in ‘Talkhees al-Habeer’,
"The hadeeth of Aa`ishah that the led the women in prayer by standing in the middle (of their first row) was reported by Abdurrazaaq and via his route, ad-Daaruqutnee and al-Bayhaqee from the hadeeth of Abu Haazim from Raa'ita al-Hanafiyyah from Aa'ishah that 'she led them in an obligatory prayer standing amongst them.'
Ibn Abee Shaybah and al-Haakim report via the route of ibn Abee Laylah from Ataa from Aa`ishah 'that she used lead the women in prayer and stand in the middle of their (first row).'
The hadeeth of Umm Salamah that she led the women in prayer and stood in the middle of them was reported by ash-Shaafi`ee, ibn Abee Shaybah and Abdurrazzaaq all from ibn Uyaynah from Ammaar ad-Dahnee from a woman of his people who was called Hajeerah from Umm Salamah 'that she led them in prayer and stood in the middle (of the first row).'
The wording of Abdurrazzaaq has, 'Umm Salamah led us in the Asr prayer and stood in the middle of us.'"
Al-Haafidh also said in ‘ad-Diraayah’,
"Muhammad bin al-Hasan reports from Ibraaheem an-Nakha`ee from Aa`ishah 'that she used to lead the women in prayer during the month of Ramadaan and stood in the middle (of their first row).'"
I say: it is clear from these ahaadeeth that when a woman leads other women then she stands in the middle (of their first row) amongst them and not in front of them (as a man does).
(as-Sana`aanee) said in ‘as-Subul as-Salaam’,
"The hadeeth lends proof for the correctness of a woman leading the people of her household, even if their be a man amongst them - and in this case he was her mu`adhdhin and an old man. The literal sense of the hadeeth shows that she used to lead him, her servant and her slave-girl.
Abu Thawr, al-Muzanee and at-Tabaree took to the opinion that this was correct while the majority were of the opposite opinion."
…Abdurrazzaaq reports in his Musannaf from Ikrimah from ibn Abbaas that he said, "when a woman leads women in prayer then she should stand in the middle of them."

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❤Jilbaab / Abaaya❤ Ilm to benefit

Bismillaah

"All praise and thanks belongs to Allaah. Lord & Creator of all the worlds. May Allaah bestow His mercy upon the Prophet, his family, his companions, and on all of those who follow them in truth until The Last Day" Ameen  

Question:

Is it permissible for a woman to disobey her parents if they command her not to wear the 'abaaya?
Answer:

It seems to be apparent that you, O my daughter, are from the khalaeej (the Gulf States) if in fact you are not from Saudi Arabia. It is obligatory upon the Muslim woman to wear the Jilbaab. The jilbaab is an outer covering that conceals the beauty of a woman and her clothing; it covers her body from head to toe. This means that it covers the entire body. As for the 'abaaya that is most popular in the Gulf States, then it has taken the place of the Jilbaab.
I say that if in your area the jilbaab is predominately worn by the people, then do not wear the 'abaaya. However, if in your area or country the people predominately wear the 'abaaya then do not obey your parents (i.e. wear the Jilbaab not the 'abayaa) as there is no obedience to the creation when it involves disobedience to the creator.
At this point I would like to clarify that the 'abaaya of the woman is be worn upon the head, and for her to wear it upon the shoulders is an error, even if some of the people of knowledge have given verdicts that the 'abaaya can be worn on the shoulders.
Verily, those who have given the verdict (stating) that a woman can wear the 'abayaa on the shoulders have only done so because they were unaware that the 'abayaa has taken the place of the jilbaab; and the Jilbaab is worn from the head.
Understand this, may Allaah bless you.
Shaykh `Ubayd al-Jaabiree
Translated by Anwar Ibn 'Arif


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Thursday, January 19, 2012

The harams of hizbiyyah- questions based off the lecture

Bismillaah

"All praise and thanks belongs to Allaah. Lord & Creator of all the worlds. May Allaah bestow His mercy upon the Prophet, his family, his companions, and on all of those who follow them in truth until The Last Day" Ameen  

As Salaamu Alaikum

Baraka'Allaahu'Feekum,

So listen to the lecture, try to answer these questions and see if you were really paying attention? :) You can make a game of it with your friends, yourself, and your husbands.


Make sure you take notes! It is recommend that whenever you are listening to a lecture or studying you should take notes. 


If anyone needs the answers to certain questions let me know Inshaa'Allaah.


  1.  According to the lecture what is hizbiyyah?
  2. What is the heart of hizbiyyah? (hint thus was an ayat the brother used)
  3. What are some examples of blind attachment according to the lecture?
  4. A poet in the times of jahaliyyah before the coming of the Messenger of Allaah stated what about his tribe? And how is this hizbiyyah?
  5. Finish the following statement?- Hold all of you together to ______ of Allaah and do not be divided?
  6. In the lecture the brother mentions a hadeeth about a war that had occurred- in the hadeeth what did the Prophet say was under his feet?
  7. Brother Abdul-Hasan is referring to a Shaykh's book in this lecture- who is the Shaykh?
  8. What is the name of the book written by the Shaykh?
  9. Indeed the best of you and most noble of you are in the sight of Allaah? __________________
  10. One of the first things that the Prophet establish between the companions of Mecca and to the companions of Medinah was what? and why?
  11. There was an argument that happen in the time of the Messenger between two of the companions- one from ___________ and the other from _________? Why did the Prophet get angry with the both of them?
  12. Brother Abdul Hasan Malik mentions in the lecture that it is incumbent that we do what for the sake of Allaah?
  13. Who are one of those that will have the shade of Allaah according to the lecture?
  14. In the part of the lecture Brother Abdul-Hasan Malik says that Prophet stated: That whoever calls to the affairs of jahaliyyah then let him do what?
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Sisterhood: The excellence of removing hizbiyyah audio (official one we listen to)

Bismillaah

"All praise and thanks belongs to Allaah. Lord & Creator of all the worlds. May Allaah bestow His mercy upon the Prophet, his family, his companions, and on all of those who follow them in truth until The Last Day" Ameen  

As Salaamu Alaikum

Baraka'Allaahu'Feekum,

Sisterhood: The excellence of removing hizbiyyah was such a lovely turn out Mashaa'Allaah.

We were originally suppose to listen to it's haram to be a hizbee lecture. However I changed it (the day of!) to The harms of hizbiyyah. This was audio from the brother Abdul Hasan Malik.


After we listen to the lecture we played a game in groups of 3 based off the lecture. It was 14 questions that I'm going to post Inshaa'Allaah. When you listen to the lecture- try to see if you know the answers :)






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Friday, January 13, 2012

Sisterhood: The Excellence of removing hizbiyyah luncheon


Bismillaah

"All praise and thanks belongs to Allaah. Lord & Creator of all the worlds. May Allaah bestow His mercy upon the Prophet, his family, his companions, and on all of those who follow them in truth until The Last Day" Ameen  

As Salaamu Alaikum

Baraka'Allaahu'Feekum,


This weekend I'm hosting a luncheon entitled: Sisterhood: The excellence of removing hizibiyyah.


Even though everyone may not be in my area to physically come to the luncheon- you guys are sure enough welcome to listen to the lecture and participate via online with the questions that will be ask from the game.


The lecture is entitled: It's haram to be a hizbee by our brother Abu Uwais (Rahimullaah) enjoy and feel free to discuss what you learned :)





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Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Treading a path to Jennah: Excerpts from the book




Bismillaah

"All praise and thanks belongs to Allaah. Lord & Creator of all the worlds. May Allaah bestow His mercy upon the Prophet, his family, his companions, and on all of those who follow them in truth until The Last Day" Ameen  

As Salaamu Alaikum

Baraka'Allaahu'Feekum


Excerpts from the Book:
"Both a man and a woman must cover their private parts with ample coverings, since this preserves morals. As for shamelessness and nudity, these are things that lead to the corruption of morality, the loss of honor, and the spreading of lewdness. But when the private parts are concealed with the covering that Allaah has instructed the men and women to abide by, this protects the private parts from fornication and homosexuality and it protects the private parts from the unlawful things that Allaah has prohibited."

"Allaah ordered that the women be asked from behind a Hijaab. What is meant by the word Hijaab is: Anything that covers a woman whether a garment, a wall, a door or any other object that can be used to screen a woman from a man when he is talking to her or asking her about something or handing her something. All of these should be done from behind a Hijaab, i.e. from behind a screen or covering. So he should not make any contact with her while she is unscreened or lacking covering and exposed. Rather, she must be behind a screen that covers her, regardless if it is her garment, her door, a wall or so on. This is since this is 'purer for your hearts and their hearts' from temptation. If women screen themselves by way of a Hijaab and the gaze of men does not fall upon them, the hearts of both the men and women will be saved from temptation and enticement. This is clearly visible in the Muslim societies that strictly adhere to the Hijaab."

"As for what we hear about today from some ignoramuses that a husband’s brother, paternal uncle or other male relative can greet his wife, shake her hand, be alone with her and enter into her presence – this is baseless. It is not permissible for a non-mahram to enter into the presence of a woman (without Hijaab), nor to shake her hand, nor to be alone in privacy with her unless there is someone else in the house through which the privacy will be removed. But as for him entering into a house that has no one in it but her, and he is not one of her mahaarim, then this is the forbidden type of privacy and it is dangerous."

If a woman has a need to speak to a man that is not one of her mahaarim, she may speak to him, but with a casual tone that has no softness or gentleness in it and not in a joking or laughing manner. Rather, her speech must be ordinary and in accordance with what necessity dictates – i.e. a question and an answer – as per the need only. She must not speak in a tone that appears friendly, laughing or teasing, or in a mellow or beautified voice, thus stirring the desires of the one who has a disease in his heart. This is based on Allaah’s saying: 'But rather speak in an honorable manner.' [Surah Al-Ahzaab: 32]"
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Treading a path to Jennah Sisters book & discussion: the first book



Bismillaah

"All praise and thanks belongs to Allaah. Lord & Creator of all the worlds. May Allaah bestow His mercy upon the Prophet, his family, his companions, and on all of those who follow them in truth until The Last Day" Ameen  

As Salaamu Alaikum

Baraka'Allaahu'Feekum

 The first book for our reading & discussion is entitled:


Advice to the Muslim Woman

Shaikh Saalih bin Fawzaan Al-Fawzaan



 About the Book:
This book is a complete translation of a transcribed lecture from Shaikh Saalih Al-Fawzaan entitled: Naseehah Lil-Mar’at-il-Muslimah (Advice to the Muslim Woman). The source used for this translation was the book Muhaadaraat fil-‘Aqeedah wad-Da’wah, a large compilation of over 25 transcribed lectures from Shaikh Saalih Al-Fawzaan on issues of Creed and Methodology (vol. 3, pg. 281-299, Markaz Fajr, 2003 Edition)

In this particular lecture, Shaikh Saalih Al-Fawzaan covers many important topics related to women, such as veiling, being in privacy with male-strangers, traveling without a mahram and other things that are critical for a Muslim woman to understand and implement.

Everyone is welcome to participate in the reading whether you are local to me or online.
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The pages that will be up for discussion are pages 1-5. Inshaa'Allaah.


Discussion questions will be posted in the up coming days Inshaa'Allaah. So don't forget to check back so you can be prepared Inshaa'Allaah.

If anyone is interested in participating in the book & discussion you can e-mail me: treadingapathtoJennah@gmail.com to get the password for the room that the book discussion will be held.

Download the book here
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